A fence is a barrier of protection. It's a boundary, set up to maintain distance, and insure safety. Boundaries are not for decoration. In the bible the term "THOU SHALT NOT" is God's barrier for safety. It's not Him being insensitive, intolerant or out of touch. Boundaries are set up by those who know the danger on the other side. Freedom to live & enjoy life, can only be maintained, by respecting the boundaries God sets. Freedom to cross a fence set by God is not freedom at all, it's ignoring the reason for the fence.
Here's a paradox "the greatest threat to freedom is freedom". The lesson: FREEDOM WITHOUT BOUNDARIES IS BONDAGE. Walk safe with God.